Guess What News Business? Bias Was OK After All…

Posted on May 14th, 2008 in journalism, new media by Kelby

I sort of laughed/cried to read about some silly nonsense Geek Wars between Wired and Techcrunch in Techcrunch’s post, “ OK, Wired, Let’s Do This!” In essence, Wired (interestingly enough, the Old School journalist in this scenario) has attacked the Techcrunch blog ( ), which formed a partnership with the Washington Post (so damn old school it is actually fossilizing as I type). This irks Wired, whose writer Betsy Schiffman wrote:

“We’ve got nothing against TechCrunch, but it seems crazy-crazy to us that the Washington Post, a paper known for the sort of reporting that can take down U.S. presidents, is publishing content written by a dude who invests in the companies he writes about. But what do we know.”

First of all, I want to make a point. This is an important one, so do pay close attention. This is tied so closely to why I’m embarassed for that it just isn’t even funny. This is tied to why I left the business after 15 years. This is why, despite loving and adoring the kind of investigative that moves mountains, I gave up on that passion. This is why people don’t even bother reading newspapers anymore.

When was the last time the Post, or any paper for that matter, did anything remotely as significant as take down a U.S. President? Oh, yes. In the 1970s. Thank you.

This is just a case of old school vs. in my opinion. For years, journalists have obsessed about being unbiased. It’s been banned, disallowed, the worst thing humanly possible for a journalist to do.

Here’s the problem with that plan. First of all, everyone is biased. Yeah, I said it. You can report and write fairly, but you can’t be a robot. Sorry, guys.

Second of all, and this is the really amusing and interesting part, no one cares! Little did they realize, and blogger popularity now proves, readers don’t care IF you are biased. They just want to know how, full disclosure.

In fact, the popularity of bloggers simply proves people like bias, they want bias. They want to find people with the same bias, because they believe them more. They want to find people with the opposite bias so they can get really mad and leave nasty comments.

They want humans, not journalists. So even though this is an insignificant spat between two sources of news, it speaks volumes of a larger issue that old school just isn’t facing. We don’t care if you’re biased. So what? We’re biased, you’re biased.

Just use full disclosure, don’t be sneaky, and write fairly. Be upfront. And for crying out loud, don’t be afraid to write boldly, without censure and without falling to the whims of advertisers, government officials.

We don’t really care if your journalist is a liberal or conservative (well, I don’t), as long as they say so. I care a lot more whether you’re axing stories because the newspaper’s publisher is buddies with the mayor, or an advertiser squawks about an unflattering biz story. I care when bias stops real stories from being told, no matter who’s telling it.

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Baking Bread - Sustainable Kitchen Project

Posted on May 14th, 2008 in food by Kelby

Daughter stirring the banana bread dough I’ve always wanted to be a good baker. I’ve always liked the idea of fresh-baked bread, from baguettes to croissants to sourdough for sandwiches. Then there’s the reality. I make bread, and it never turns out quite right. But for my , I’m determined to get to the point where we can just use bread I bake instead of store-bought. Is it realistic? Who knows.

I read this article on Baking vs. Cooking by a Foodie Mama writer, and realized something. I’m bad at baking for the same reason I’m bad at gardening (which, incidentally, is going pretty well with my organic vegetable garden!). It requires patience, and precision. Not really my thing. But I am trying to improve.

This weekend, I made two loaves of bread from scratch. Both turned out less than perfect, but they did still taste good. I will keep practicing, and I think I may have even figured out what I did wrong.

The nice thing about baking your own bread is it doesn’t require expensive equipment or even expensive ingredients. I first made a banana bread with chocolate chips. The reason? I discovered three forgotten (and very overripe) bananas on top of the refrigerator. I hated to just toss them in the trash.

On Mother’s Day, my daughter and I made it into a pretty amazing bread. I will declare it a success, but I think I used too much banana. The recipe called for 2-3 bananas. I used 3, but they were very large. The bread was a bit overmoist, and fell apart very easily. Still, it tasted amazing.

Cocky on my first semi-success in baking, I decided to take the next step that evening. I decided to make real white bread. With yeast. This is typically where things go wrong. My bread always ends up really dense. This time, though, I think I’ve figured out why.

My bread cookbook encouraged me to use fresh yeast or, as a second choice, instant yeast. I had active dry yeast, and I’m guessing it doesn’t rise as well. I also read for the first time ever that salt kills yeast. Hello? Isn’t that noteworthy? I have never read that in a bread recipe before. And it still wasn’t clear to me why I was still adding salt, or how to do it properly.

Anyway, I waited until last to add the salt, but I could even see the change in the dough immediately around the salt granules. So how do you add salt to bread dough? I don’t get it.

In the end, the bread tasted good but it is definitely too heavy and dense. I want light and fluffy. Are any of you skilled bread bakers? What did I do wrong? Tips? I will not let a simple loaf of bread beat me.

Here are some pictures of the two breads being created, and the end results:

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Kirtsy - a (not so) New Social Bookmarking Site for Chicks

Posted on May 12th, 2008 in mommy blogging, social networking, web 2.0 by Kelby

This post is completely about giving some link love and exposure to a great, awesome, wonderful site for women. If you are a woman and write about stuff of interest to women, there’s no question. Kirtsy is the place to socially bookmark it, or to even just find the hottest news and blog posts of interest to women.

Thanks to the not very lady-like Skirt Magazine (want the real scoop? I couldn’t possibly reveal all better than the Bloggess does!), the kick ass web site formerly known as sk*rt is giving a kirtsy. We should all do the fine lady the honor of saying hello.

So stop by and check out Kirtsy. Better yet, help spread the word. Best part? You can win some very cool prizes!

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Mommy Bloggers on Mother’s Day

Posted on May 11th, 2008 in mommy blogging, parenting by Kelby

I just thought I would spread around some link love to the many great out there. Here are some nice fresh posts on Mother’s Day:

Did you post about Mother’s Day today? If I missed it, comment below with a link to your m-day post. Happy Mother’s Day.

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My Mother’s Day Wish

Posted on May 11th, 2008 in corporate world, parenting by Kelby

Work at Home MomsIt’s Mother’s Day, and I’m happy. I got to sleep in (first time since, like 2003, I think). I came downstairs to find three children making me construction-paper-and-crayon Mother’s Day cards. Life is good.

I love that I finally get to spend more time with my children (in December I switched from long-time hardcore workaholic career mom to working at home all but one day a week). But the road there has lasted since I was pregnant with my daughter (and she’s 5). We did spend a year in France with my daughter, but to do that we sold our house and lived off our equity.

The rest of the time, I’ve worked full-time by day, raised children, busted my ass after bedtimes and before waking times freelancing. I’ve been doing a job (writing) for years that absolutely did not require my presence in an office, and absolutely could have been done from home. I’ve got plenty of experience to qualify me to do this job (more than 15 years). But no employer has allowed it (especially being that I was in the paranoid and twitchy newspaper business until 2006).

It took all of that time, all those years, all those late late nights, to hit a critical mass of freelance work and work at home clients that I could stay at home.

Ridiculous.

Sadly, when it finally happened, I was in a day job I finally loved. But the fact still remained: it was physically away from my children.

It’s exactly the reason, it’s the entire motivation and purpose, behind my creating Type-A Mom. I wanted to create one option, as unimportant as that might be, where moms who want to work at home (and who deserve to have the best of both worlds) actually can. The site is still young, just a year old, and it’s still building, but that is my dream.

So here is my Mother’s Day wish. Companies will finally get it. Companies will make it not only allowable for moms to work at home (and dads, too!), but encouraged. Sure, there are many positions in which you physically need to be there. In many, many jobs you don’t. At all.

So why are companies still requiring that moms be there, despite studies and anecdotal evidence that moms not only can accomplish work at home, but that those who work at home are, in fact, often times more productive? Just so they can get that warm and fuzzy feeling one gets from hovering over an employee?

So companies, how about it? Treat your moms right. Make our lives easier. Let us work from home.

Shoot, it’s not like you need to be selfless and take a hit for doing so. COMPANIES benefit from letting parents work from home. You need less space, no insignificant factor considering the cost of real estate. You need less equipment. It benefits the environment, as there are fewer people commuting. It’s quite simply a win-win.

And what of your big fear? That moms will just “work” at home, but really goof off. Well, fire them. Just like you would fire someone who goofs off and gets nothing done in the office. Not too complicated.

To hell with the Mommy Wars. Make it so any mom, all moms, don’t have to choose between work and home. We can do both, and we should be able to do both.

Do you know of a company that is amazingly family-friendly and allows moms to job share, work from home, telecommute, or generally be devoted to kids and work? Comment below so they get some recognition, and so moms know where to apply.

Photo of working mom by Piotr Bizior.

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Buying Local Food - Sustainable Kitchen Project

Posted on May 10th, 2008 in asheville, food by Kelby

Stacked cheeses Buying local food is actually a big part of my , even if it isn’t entirely related to a self-sustaining kitchen. Still, buying produce and food products from my neighbors instead of those that traveled 1,500 miles is, I believe, is in the spirit of my project.

When we lived in Nice, France, we shopped at a local market almost every day. In fact, we didn’t even own a car there. That meant the most we could ever buy is what we could carry (and not much since we had a 1-year-old with us). We would usually hit the big Cours Selaya Flower Market and buy just enough produce to last a couple days.

We couldn’t even do the big, mondo, semi-ridiculous grocery store expedition where you load up on a month’s supply of things that are frozen, boxed, canned, jarred and came from the other side of the globe.

We also always had the best local food, because in France it was so easy to do so. Want bread? Go to the bakery around the corner. Sweet tooth? Hit a local pastry shop or chocolaterie. Meat comes from the local butcher, and cheese from one of the amazing, divine corner cheese shops.

So this morning wasn’t quite at that level, of course. I’m not in France anymore. But I am in Asheville, and food was a major reason I wanted to move here (a.k.a. Foodtopia) when we returned from France and found ourselves unhappy in Northwest Indiana near Chicago (too flat, and way too cold).

We went to the new Asheville City Market. It’s kind of interesting they even need another market (we have like 45 in the region), but it actually is the only one conveniently located downtown. And it seems to have attracted many vendors. There was a mix of produce, plants, cheeses, meats, local trout, fresh baked breads and pastries, and local-made jams and jellies. In a word, it’s divine. And it was a little like being back in the South of France.

And it’s another check off of my although this, like everything on the list, is something I want to do regularly (at least weekly). We’ll see if I can stick to that.

We made some great purchases, and I spent about $50. I got some grass-fed pastured lamb and pork from Hickory Nut Gap Farm, and some unbelievably delicious goat cheese from Spinning Spider Creamery (the hardest decision of the day, as I wanted pretty much every variety she had). In fact, I’m nibbling on crackers topped with the Provence Chevre right now as I type.

We got some local lettuce (a cool and interesting speckled Romaine variety), plump asparagus, and apple butter.

The kids had a wonderful time and, in an almost unheard-of first, not a one had a melt-down. For morning snack, my husband, oldest daughter and I had chocolate croissants from a local baker, and the twins enjoyed these adorable star-shaped mini croissants filled with rhubarb and goat cheese.

Here are some pictures, including close-ups of my mouth-watering local food purchases:

Baked Goods at the Asheville City Market Croissants Chocolate Croissant close-up Rhubarb Goat Cheese Croissant Stars Star-Shaped Croissants Chalkboard Sign and Plant Plants for sale at the market Tomato plants for sale at the market Asheville City Market Local Food is Better Fig Rosemary Goat Cheese Goat Cheese bowl Stacked cheeses Cheddar Cheese Strawberries Diced Strawberries Apple Butter Local Pasture Raised Pork Loin Provence Chevre Speckled Romaine Lettuce Asparagus

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The Presidential Election on Twitter

Posted on May 7th, 2008 in journalism, new media, social networking, web 2.0 by Kelby

There is a story that the mainstream news media is missing, and it’s this fascinating, engaging and sometimes animated (translation: nasty) election conversation happening on .

I just voted today in the North Carolina primary, and right now I am doing double duty at midnight posting on and watching CNN. In one evening on , I’ve seen heated debates, jabs at Hillary Clinton, cheers for Barack Obama, and seen national newscasters be the butt of jokes.

In fact, Hillary Clinton and Barack Obama are both on , as well as any assorted number of accounts with a candidate’s name in them. Obama has an amazing number of followers (almost 30,000, reputed to be the most followed member on ).

So you can follow the campaign in the papers, or you can follow this cool online conversation about the campaign. It’s pretty telling.

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Cre8Buzz Beta - a Social Network for Moms (and Any Other Niche)

Posted on May 1st, 2008 in social networking by Kelby

My latest obsession is a social network I’m embarrassed to say I just discovered maybe a week ago. So far, however, I have been quite impressed. The main reason is that this social network, like , is one that’s rockin’ cool for moms to connect. Cre8Buzz Beta has a category for each member, and Moms is one of them. How much easier could that be to find moms?

That’s part one what makes it stand out. When I waxed philosophical on the fate of social networks earlier, I mentioned that people will likely settle into their favorites, into the networks that best fit their lifestyle and their clique.

I love that I can find people in all my special little niches with just a couple clicks on Cre8Buzz… there’s a section for dads, writers, travelers, foodies. Some aren’t as populated with members, but the Mom one is definitely hopping (there are 500-plus moms on Crea8Buzz.

And here is the stand out part two: it is so easy and simple to promote yourself. So many social networks just don’t totally get it. They might make it possible for people to promote themselves, but it isn’t always easy. For a blogger, you can easily add all of your blogs which are enticing little screenshots. Not only that, but people vote on how cool your blogs are, so they can get increasing exposure as people rate them highly.

Which brings me to stand out aspect number three. The community sets the level of coolness of its members and the things they promote. I’m sure that means there can be abuse, but it also means cream can rise to the top. The mom bloggers in the top 10, for instance, are pretty amazing bloggers. People can rank blogs, pictures in your profile, videos in your profile, your blog posts at Crea8Buzz, and even you.

Here’s the other cool thing. When I joined, my ranking was something rather embarrassing. I think it was close to 400. And a week or so later, my ranking is 13 in the Moms section! That really speaks more to how many moms I already know were on there than anything else. But it sure drives me to visit the site again and again. I’d almost describe it as a little too addictive.

Are you on Cre8Buzz? Check out my profile and say hello!

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Alltop, my Daily Newspaper 2.0

Posted on May 1st, 2008 in journalism, mommy blogging, web 2.0 by Kelby

If you haven’t already discovered Alltop, you should check it out. When I first heard about Alltop, and all the buzz, I honestly figured it was just because web guru mastermind super rockstar uber-tweeter and general Geek Overlord Guy Kawasaki was involved. My first visit to the site, I thought it was just a page full of feeds. Uhh, yawn.

But here’s the creepy-weird thing that started happening. My Type-A Mom site was added to the Alltop Moms page, so I would pop in from time to time to see what’s happening. My About France Travel and Suite101 Family Adventures feeds were added onto the Alltop Travel page.

This was all evidence of just how accessible Guy is. I simply harassed him on or emailed him (after his open invitation for people to contact him to suggest sites).

Next thing I knew, I wasn’t even looking to see if my feed was there. I was hitting Alltop each morning to see what was happening in my pet topics like Moms, Dads, Travel, Social Media, SEO, etc. I started neglecting my hand-picked Bloglines feeds.

Then I realized what had happened. Alltop had become my 2.0 version of the daily newspaper (and I’ll get into why I ditched reading a daily print newspaper every morning in a future post).

I’m also not at all surprised that (I believe) Alltop just got its first Google PageRank, and it’s a 6.

In its simplicity — create pages that feature all the top feeds in particular categories — it has become indispensable. Genius. I can glance at the Moms page and, in a matter of a minute, have a broad feel for what’s happening with .

Have you used Alltop? What are you thoughts? Do you find it useful, useless or just totally addictive?

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Worst Rookie France Travel Mistakes

Posted on April 29th, 2008 in travel by Kelby

You’re planning your first trip to France, and it’s something you’ve dreamed of for years. But there are several rookie mistakes that could make your visit less enjoyable, or even downright unpleasant. Hey, you don’t have to look like a rookie. Here are some tips about mistakes to avoid on your first vacation in France.

Don’t do this: Worst Rookie France Travel Mistakes

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